A scale for self-reflection:
- Stage 1: not assertive.
- Stage 2: assertive, but a jerk.
- Stage 3: assertive when necessary. Not a jerk.
Another scale is:
- Stage 1: not confident.
- Stage 2: confident, but no ability.
- Stage 3: confident, with ability.
How do we jump from Stage 1 to Stage 3?